Tammy

Tammy

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Considering Forgiviness...

I have never been told i was stubborn until
my boyfriend came along...
He thinks i should make up with my ex friend...
At first i just blew it off but now i am
actually thinking about
doing it...
but i know i don't want to jump back out...
I want to take my time to see
if i should really trust
her..
But i don't want to be stubborn or immature about
everything so that is why i am even
thinking about it..
Apart of me know that we won't be as close as we were before...
i don't think that could ever happen again...
But i can't really say what will
or will not
happen..
I just don't want to look like a fool again....
That is the big thing that
pops in my head...
I will sleep on it for a few more nights
then decide.....
I just know that friends are hard to come by then on..
top of that i am not a very open person...
So that makes it 10x harder
for me...
I just hope i make the right decision...
I guess i will be saying...
a prayer..
And if you want to know what my friend did to
me just refer to my blog about dick
mixed with a crazy
bitch...

8 comments:

The Cool Commentator said...

hey there! thanks for coming to my blog and commenting!! i had never even considered selling anything! lol i should have more of my work up in the next couple days so you should check it out!!

I like your poem! :) hope to hear from you soon

Miss Pisces said...

Hi!
Saw your post in the help group so I decided to check you out.. In regards to forgiveness... since you didnt say what your friend did to you it is hard to know exactly what direction to steer you (advice wise lol).. however keep in mind that it is still possible to forgive someone and not have them in your life. Forgiveness is about YOU, not them. One of my favorite quotes: "Forgiveness is giving up the hope that you can change the past..." no clue who it's by, but I find it to be very true. Def. forgive your friend, but also think about your standards & expectations of friends.. It is not a word to be thrown around loosely.. :-) Good Luck! Come check me out some time!

-Miss Pisces

miss-pisces.blogspot.com

Unknown said...

The good thing about forgiving someone that has hurt or betrayed you in the past is: you know what to look out for in the future.

If your heart tells you to forgive, then do. But only if you can forgive completely, otherwise it will eat you up inside. Good luck and I hope you do what is best for YOU.

ßry™ said...

you know you cannot really forget especially if the person that caused you pain is someone very close to your heart. but you have to forgive and let it go. oftentimes part of letting go is letting go of that person too. that is why you have to be on top of the situation. are you letting go completely or are you giving the person a second chance. the traces of a broken trust will remain forever but it's up to you to control your emotions to atleast conceal the pain and alleviate the anger that is there.

hope that helps.. just to share what i think.

Cheers!

ßry™
http://bry-hq.blogspot.com

Jessica Shope said...

Hey, just wanted to let ya know that I left a response on your question in the help group. :]

- Jane

http://janeopal.blogspot.com

Unknown said...

At the age of 70, that when someone wrongs you and you cannot deal with it at the time, just move on and deal with more positive things, which of course is a lot easier than it sounds.

Regarding the boy friend: if you don't get the tingle, he isn't the right "forever one."

http://www.Zazzle.com/Florabunda

The Cool Commentator said...

Hey there! Hope you are well and still enjoying blogging!! I have been away from my blog for almost a week now but I am back!

I have just written Chapter 3 - Part 1 and got it up on the blog, so come over and catch up with Jack and Stephanie.

I will stop by and read your recent posts when i get the chance! :) Look forward to hearing what you think of the next installment!!!

TheChicestGeek said...

I know my response is late as crap, but you never gave an update. You should forgive her, even if you dont become her friend again. Dont hold the bad feelings. Trust me once you let it go, youll feel a weight lifted.